I kind of disappeared for awhile, not that anyone on here really gives a shit, but a lot has happened.
Diana and I have a very complicated relationship. We have seen each other a lot since my last update and I have been super busy with other bullshit in my pathetic excuse for a life which is why I have been M.I.A. but anyways,
When her and I spend time together things are great. We have a lot of fun and were both really happy. But things are so weird when it isn’t just us. If we are around her friends she treats me VERY differently. She always introduces me as her “friend from norcal” never as “my boyfriend” (I’ll explain that in a second) Now I understand this may not seem that important but it kind of bothers me in a weird way. I almost feel like she is trying to keep me a secret? She says im her boyfriend and blahblahblah but yet when it comes to being public about it, I’m not. it’s very strange. Facebook is still single, introduces me as a friend to everyone, and the way she acts like always going out and partying, never really talks to me ever until night time she calls and we talk for a few minutes before we both go to bed, I don’t know. it’s all little things but it’s all very odd to me.
Also we argue like A LOT. Over really stupid shit too. Everything I say makes her so mad or upset. It’s crazy and it’s really frustrating for me. She always says really mean stuff to me and makes me feel like shit.
I think I just cared too much. So I have been forcing myself to back off a little and try to not like her as much I guess? (that sounds really bad but i can’t really think of another way to word it right now, it’s really early in the morning here so none of this probably makes sense anyways) But basically, instead of getting mad or jealous about shit i just force myself to laugh it all off and be fine with everything. I am refusing to be upset about anything. It is hard sometimes but for the most part it is working.
I’m going to be honest, i am just fed up with the fighting and her making me feel like a shit person. I think I just kind of reached my breaking point and now i just don’t really care about anything. I know that sounds really bad, and it makes me question why I bother continuing to waste my time with her. that sounds harsh but that’s how I have been feeling lately about the whole thing.
On top of all that bullshit, I have noticed that whenever a guy is in a relationship, it seems every girl in the world decides to like you. hahaha it’s such a strange coincidence. I will explain more of that on M.I.A. part 2 in a few minutes.
~Michael